*Solemnization-on-19*11*2010*

Mr & Mrs Zulfadhli

Known each other * starting 2000
Officially couple * 8.5.2006
Break Off * 1.1.2009
Gud fren * February - September 2009
Engaged * 10.10.2009
Married * 19.11.2010

Im officially a wife now..to a guy named Zulfadhli. Yes, he is my official husband (ada ke unofficial??cehhh ;p). So lets recap d whole thing right before i turn to b a wife. The akad was held on 19th November 2010 (19112010) at Masjid Bukit Antarabangsa. According to plan, i will be made up (make up n everything) at my brother's ouse which is very near to d masjid. But to avoid any problems due to so many aunties n uncles yg akan berkumpul di rumah abang, we changed the plan n i chose to b made up at my gud fren's ouse, Ija at Ukay Perdana (Thanx buddy!!!).

I was really get myself prepared on dat day, physically (Thanx Tiar!!! my MUA) and emotionally coz a week before majlis, everytime when Zul called me, he will remind me with those  so called counting days. So day by day, i know how long  it will took me to my big day. 

Never expected in mind, Zul was d one who turn everybody's joy to a sadness mode. Well at first he did a great job during the akad with sekali lafaz. It went smooth and sounded easy to him. But when d lafaz taklid take turns, he suddenly became emotionally inside. Dengan bacaan taklid yg terhenti-henti , sebak n dengan titisan air mata, he was so into wat he read. especially when it comes to bacaan tentang penceraian. I was speechless there n feels like i wanna hug him rite there n tell him its oke cos i know how much he loves me. Of course tak ada lelaki pun yg baru berkahwin akan terfikir bout penceraian.  But who knows ajal maut, jodoh semua di tangan Tuhan. Not only me, d whole family n even his frens were never expected he read the taklid emotionally. 

Until Tok Kadi, gave him some time to soothe his feelings. Although he looked himself on dat time as something that really embarassing but to me it was sincere from his heart n it shows how much he put hopes and wat he really wants our realtionship to be in future. Abah (my father in law) tried to calm him down n minta dia selawat banyak2. Alhamdulillah after 5-10 minutes, everything done. Seriously wat happened really makes me feel so in love with him as i dun even want to hurt him even a bit n b a good wife serta ikut cakap suami as much as he really put high hopes in our relationship. he always tell me that tanggungjawab suami nie besar n he tried to do it as good as possible. Insyallah.

Now we officially 2 become 1..

Other than that, just let the pics speaks for itself. Everything was a big moment to me. To my whole lifetime.
 
nervous & sweating
 
few minutes before akad


 
touching moment during bacaan taklid
ring for me

officially husband & wife ~ u may kiss now ;p


                                                        i love mama. She's everything to me.

            beautiful hantaran done by my sis n papa (believe it or not, he's got dat talent)

 
 husband & wife
 
                                                                                happy




# Next entry : Reception on 20*11*2010

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* woman *

Woman. 

Nothing much to say. Woman out there, u can bash me all u want, but its d fact. Fact about us (Sigh!)

Remeh tapi menyakitkan hati. Even when u (yes i pun perempuan juga!) urself in dat situation, then baru kita perasan, yuhla betulla perempuan mcm nie ;)

Let me list down few (from many im sure) things here :
  1. Di tengah2 kesibukan jln yg sememangnya sibuk luar biasa, kat situ jgk la nk ajak bersembang & bergosip. Fine maybe terserempak dgn kawan lama yang dh x jumpa 100 tahun but it just take few langkah sahaja utk ke tepi so dat dapat memberi laluan pd org lain, but maybe few steps gonna steal d mood of gosip yg lebih panas. Maybe.
  2. Kat queue yg panjang, masa tu la nak hugs n kisses kwn yg dh lm x jmpa. Lebih kurang sama seperti kes di atas tp jika digabungkan dua maka berjam2 la lamanya.
  3. Di atas jalanraya, maybe ingin tunjukkan kehandalan berada di fast lane Okey sudah cukup handal tapi dengan kelajuan 70-90 km/hr. Hmmmm not gud enough my dear. Cuba lagi.
  4. Di parking lot, si perempuan (usually) konon2 ingin menjadi romantik @ membantu si suami untuk cepat dapat parking. Caranya...si isteri @ gf maybe akan turun dari kereta dan berdiri comel di atas lot parking dgn tujuan untuk cop parking tersebut. Tugas yang senang, tp menyakitkan hati pada driver kereta yg sudah sampai di lot tparking terlebih dahulu. Owh bertuah sungguh si suami itu. Haihh
  5. Semasa traffic light dah tukar hijau, kepala masih mengelamun panjang ingat zaman bercinta masa sekolah rendah..x pun tadika...atau jika married woman, sibuk memikirkan lauk ape nak dimasak di rumah atau anak no berapa yg terlupa nak fetch di sekolah. Aduhhhhhhhh..kereta di belakang sila bersabar dengan tidak mengeluarkan tone suara memaki hamun @ middle finger yer. Terima kasih.
  6. Di shopping complex, niat di hati untuk membeli. Niat itu sudah baik dan cukup untuk menunjukkan memang nak beli. Tapi disebabkan nama sudah perempuan, niat yg memang fokus utk membeli telah membuatkan si promoter terpaksa bwk keluar masuk barang 100 kali. Menggembirakan promoter, jika dia bernasib baik pelanggannya beli walaupun 100 kali keluar masuk, but to add salt to injury, ' saya tak jadi belilah..color nie x kena dengan saya '. dalam hati promoter tu ' xpela its oke'. Itu promoter yang baik. kalau brutal 'WTF ' (faham2 sendiri yer)
  7. Perempuan jika sudah berkenan satu barang tu, selagi promoter kedai tu bawak keluar 20 color berlainan dgn pattern yg sebijik sama, confirm 20 tu jgk yg nak beli. semua nmpk cantik. End up 1 jer pakai, lagi 19 perhiasan di closet. Tepat sekali menerangkan bonda dan aunty2 saya. Haihhh..hopefully ini bukan penyakit genetik. haihhh
  8. Diet : dalam hati x makan sebab nak diet, tapi bila org tanya ' ehh xla...bt ape nak diet, saja je dah kenyang'. Tahan di mulut tidak di perut. Haha
  9. WAREHOUSE SALE (WS). Bersesak adalah perlu untuk mendapatkan harga yang murah sehinggakan, kalau traffic jam kita sebut bumper to bumper tapi jika kes begini perut ke perut yer (haha).Hilang keayuan dan kesopanan yang dikekalkan sebelum sampai WS tadi. Lalalalala.
  10. I feel guilty actually to write bad things bout woman coz i am a woman also. But the fact is dat, im leaning to dat also. Hahah. Haihhh..

Nota tangan (boringlaa asyik kaki jer) : Congratulations to our GG Geng, Nurul for her wedding last week on 6th Nov. 3 down, another 1 more to go!!!!!
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